To Friends of Abuse Victims

By Tammy René | August 8, 2023 |

Things for friends of abuse victims to understand: When you have been a victim of any kind of abuse, one of the hardest things to do is to admit to yourself and others that you have been deeply hurt by those who should love and care for you. Whether you are an abused child or adult, the feelings of helplessness and fear you experience can be devastating.

If you know someone who is facing this kind of trauma, here are several things to keep in mind:

  • A compassionate listener is of great worth to a grieving heart. You don’t need to solve their problems, but simply support them as they seek out the solutions.
  • Be patient in the recovery process—it is a process.
  • Know your own boundaries and be gentle and firm in setting them.
  • You can’t fix them and you both need to know that. Reassure them in their own abilities to be find healing and encourage them in seeking professional help.
  • Acknowledging a Higher Power can be a great comfort to you as well as them.

For more info: safespaceonline.org

To read more here: Healing Emotional Trauma and Building on the Light

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About Tammy René

As a survivor of childhood sexual and physical abuse in a cult, Tammy René brings her personal experience of overcoming trauma to audiences to inspire hope and understanding. Her messages offer victims of childhood trauma keys to healing, and insight and understanding about ways to help lift those who struggle on their healing journey. She captivates and inspires audiences with her intimate storytelling, inviting them to experience with her the highs and lows of her journey. Her stories dismantle the stigma of mental illness and show that “regardless of the pains and heartache we are called to go through, all of us can find light and hope, ultimately thriving in a life that is uniquely our own.” She is passionate about helping others discover and use their potential for building a life they love. Tammy hosts the podcast series, Survivor Shift: Moving from Surviving to Thriving where she interviews others about their own healing journey.

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